Are you wondering about the best ways to make a man fall in love with you? Aren’t we all? Love makes the world go round and everybody (and I mean everybody) wants to be in love.
Unfortunately, falling in love, and having that same someone fall in love with you, isn’t easy. But it is possible! Let me help. Here are 5 ways on how to get a guy to like you and fall in love with you:
1. Be yourself
I know. Everyone always tells you how important it is to be yourself in any relationship. That’s because it is!
If you want a man to fall in love with you, you have to be you! You can’t try to be someone who he wants you to be or someone who you read about in a magazine.
Even the best actor isn’t truly authentic in their role and if you try to act like you are someone else, your guy will see through it and back away.
And, if he does become attached to the fake you, when he meets the real you, which he will, he will be gone in a flash.
And then you will be left alone with the pretend you. Not so fun, eh.
So be you. If your guy can’t fall in love with the real you, then you don’t want him to love you at all. If he can’t see how awesome the real you is, then forget him and find someone who can.
2. Be mysterious
In this era of public sharing of every intimate detail of our lives, it is hard to be mysterious in this world. But it is important to do so when you are out in the dating world.
I am a sharer. I am happy to talk about just about anything with anyone I meet. People at the dog park, at the grocery store or on the subway. I am happy to share intimate details about myself because I like hearing intimate details about other people as well.
Unfortunately, I learned the hard way that lots of sharing do not work so well in the dating world. The last thing that you want to do on a first date is to share every little detail about yourself.
Yes, your parents are divorced, you fight a lot with your sister, you have had sex with more than a dozen guys, and you are prone to bouts of sadness when the seasons change.
And, while all of those things are real and true, and should definitely be divulged in time, in the beginning, be yourself but also share information carefully.
Guys are different from girls and can get scared away by too much sharing. And, while you want a guy who can share, many guys need to get to know their girl well before they are comfortable with that sharing. So don’t put them off by sharing too much too soon.
Also, as I said before, guys are hunters and like to stalk their prey. And if he has to ask you questions about yourself to learn more, he will definitely be intrigued.